I love my kids. I absolutely love babies. If it weren’t for this things called a vasectomy, I would probably be pregnant with our fifth child. The husband didn’t want five and you know now that we are settled with four we are happy as a family of six.
All that said, and as much as I love the idea of having another baby – I can’t help but think about all of the pains involved with every aspect of child birth.
There are so many things no one tells you about in regards to pregnancy and child birth. You see how cute the baby is. You hear about how a baby does this darling thing or that. The store is filled with baby clothes that make you want to play dress-up. Now listen, I totally don’t want to scare anyone from having a baby – well I will happily scare my daughter until she is married and in her late 20’s…. I just want people to know that certain things happen to your body when you are pregnant and then oh my GOD – afterwards that just NOBODY talks about.
I want you to know it all. I want you to give birth and not be shocked when a lactation specialist grabs your boob. I want you to be ready to accept that you maybe sending your husband to the store to pick-up Depends after you have your child. I want you to know that while bonding MAY happen instantly, it may not.
There is so much that I want you to know! So, I wrote a book. It’s called: Untold Truth About Getting Pregnant, Pregnancy and Having a Baby.
I get straight to the point. I talk about getting pregnant – pregnancy and having a baby and all those details your girlfriend didn’t mention when she was telling you about how darling her little baby girl is.
I hope you will read it, and that it informs you of what to expect.
Babies really are beautiful, and yes – having a baby is a PAIN.